I'm originally from Minnesota, but upon realizing the weather there is terrible, moved to San Diego. I ended up in DC a few years ago for work, and am still at the same organization.
In my free time I like to go to have drinks with friends, try new things (activities and restaurants), go to festivals and shows, skee ball and other bar games, golf, exercise, roller blade (very 80s, I know), watch college hockey, go to vineyards, hike, etc. I like to keep pretty busy and have fun activities planned most weekends. However, I think anything can be fun if you are with the right person.
When I have the vacation days, I like to travel, and generally the more exotic the locale the better (eg, southeast asia, south america). While I am fairly ambitious, ultimately my personal life takes priority so I strive to keep a good balance.
Iniciadores de conversación (por ejemplo: ¿qué te gusta hacer en una primera cita?)
Mini-golf or a friendly skee ball competition.